Thursday, September 17, 2015

Love Learning

This post is dedicated to my sister... the most voracious reader and passionate learner I know!


We often hear about the importance of instilling a love of learning, but what does it really mean? Learning should be fun? Yes!  Learning should be interesting? Yes!  But in the scope of a person's life learning is so much more.  Being dedicated to learning as an adult is critical in all areas of life to truly succeed.  Like a person who exercises and builds stamina over time, the commitment to learning builds.  We all have those obligatory items we have to read in school, but reading can be so much more.  It is the doorway to discovering how wonderful our imaginations can be and, in adulthood, how words can transform a life through development or healing.  

Looking around my home I see evidence of learning everywhere... Parenting books on my desk, leadership books on my husband's nightstand, the occasional text book on the coffee table.  They serve as morsels of our leadership and love of learning to our children.  As a result, there are picture books, Dr. Seuss, and the all-too-familiar Wimpy Kid books upstairs on various night tables.  There are books, book shelves, and stacks of books everywhere and in every room.  Are all these items scholarly - uh, no - but they are a testament of a family's passion for written words that will grow!  This warms my heart like nothing else.

Do I always want to read? Well, yes.. I do, so my example to my children is how reading is second nature, almost like breathing.  Just as important is my husband's actions in this area of our life as a family.  He does not really like to read - but he has learned the value of it - and I am confident that his example will save my boys the hard lessons of developing a dedication to life-long learning that we so severely lack due to distractions such as gaming and television.  There are far too many children with controllers in their hands for hours at a time.  It may seem painful in the moment, most assuredly met with grumbles, but take the time to show your children about a love of learning. Read to them!  Have the older ones read to everyone!  Read Bible stories and capture their hearts!

I encourage you to instill a love of reading in your children early in life as it will most assuredly develop into a love of learning.  It will serve them beyond measure as they grow into adulthood. It will set the stage for their successes in relationships, professions, and in their walk with the Lord.  So the next time you want to flip through the channels, check your Facebook feed, or play a game on your phone, don't!!  Pick up a book and discover how it can change your life - and the life of your children - forever.

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

Taking the Time to Look in Their Eyes

Everyday is a whirlwind in my home.  School, Bible Study, errands, food, cleaning up, fun, fighting, laundry (oh the laundry), the list never ends.... it NEVER ends.  A home school mom can stay busy all day without sitting down one time.  I know, I've done it!  But is this the role we should play in our homes? Is this the example we should set for our children?

As the Lord directs our steps we should listen carefully to the step of not stepping!  Take the time to stand still, slow down and look into the eyes of your children.  Show them that you are their mom first and foremost - that the things they say or do matter to you... in a good way!  I have to mention that because I've struggled with finding a good thing that they do some days - it feels like my home is a zoo crossed with an iron man competition. And let's face it... there are days where I discipline more than any other type of interaction.  This too is so hard! Where is the balance between snuggles and spankings? I try to get in as much time as possible loving them, but it seems like it is never enough. My children are growing before my eyes - changing from one day to the next - especially the little ones.  The last thing I want to do is spend this precious time at odds with each other. 

My life is exhausting, but the most we can do is look to God for direction - in scripture and through prayer.  We can also lean on the wise counsel of other moms - or just let them hear your thoughts out loud to confirm: "I'm not going crazy!"  I hug my kids and much as possible, give them to the Lord each day and set the boundaries of their young lives in hopes they will set strong boundaries with eyes fixed on their God-given purposes in the future.   

Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Summer Fun

There is an inherent fun about summer.  Pool days, lazy days, relaxing at home all define the summer.  This is also a time for home school families to work! In a place like Texas the summer days can be insufferably hot.  We take the opportunity to use the flexibility of home school to get some unit studies or special interest activities completed so that the beautiful 'two weeks' of fall and spring can be spent outside without the pressure of staying on task.

This summer we are participating in several free days at the local museums, mornings at the zoo, Vacation Bible School, completing a summer reading list of Newberry Medal Books, more board games than I can count, art projects, helping grandparents with home improvements that include special overnight stays, robotics camp and Microsoft coding camp.  The little ones spent lots of time in the pool, playing make-believe in a pirate world and taking turns as 'I'm Daddy at Work Today.'

          
I'm not suggesting that summer should be overly structured but I encourage you to think deliberately about the precious days before the 'official end' of summer and enjoy every moment!

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Starting out defeated but ending triumphant

Moms can all identify with starting the day in a whirlwind - nothing goes right.  Each of your children makes the morning particularly 'special' with throwing wet dirty underwear over the balcony in front of your sister, gets into the left over chocolate cupcakes for breakfast, or maybe they just wake up at 4:30 am with a 'ready to start the day NOW' smile.  Regardless, the enemy infiltrates your mind at your weakest point and shouts defeat! 

As moms of the next generation of champions for Christ we must recognize this worry, doubt, and anxiety and use the tools God gives us to show our children that defeat is what you allow it to be.  Utilizing the tools of prayer and scripture doesn't make this life easier but leading by example shows our children that how we handle these daily struggles with a Christian mindset makes all the difference. 

Keep this in mind - 2 Corinthians 4:8... "Lord God, I am hard pressed on every side, but I don't have to be crushed; I am perplexed, but I do not have to be in despair." My humanity sometimes gets the best of me and my kiddos see it in my voice or my expressions, but the Word of God and a moment in prayer shows them that prayer and scripture coupled together are a source of unbelievable strength against the struggles of each day.

So when you are facing defeat before the day really begins, take a deep breath - seek out the word of God and pray! You will define the moment as powerful, triumphant - not in the defeat so desperately sought by the enemy.

Finally one of those little creatures that test your limits - God's precious child that He entrusted to you - will stubbornly fall off to sleep in their bathing suit with no pool time in sight and warm your heart.


 

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Is Free Really Free?

Marketing to home school families is far beyond having the best products for each learning style.  We see the word FREE everywhere.  Usually there is a free component to the offering - having strings attached is the name of the game.  I'm not against paying for things - we all know that homeschooling is typically less expensive than a private school but is almost always NOT completely free.  Here are some tips to make home school cost effective and a few websites that are (gasp!!) truly free....

Tips:

1. Carefully save curriculum books by making copies for usable sheets so that they can be used over and over.

2. Partner with other home school families through church or other connections for group rates on enrichment activities like the local museums, art classes, theaters, planetariums, or amusement parks.  Sometimes these establishments even have regular free opportunities to visit.  This can be a specifically designed home school day or free afternoons/days open to the public. 

3.  Use the resources in your area - libraries and parks are fabulous learning opportunities for FREE and can be coupled with a play date.  Most public parks and libraries offer special activities for little or no cost as well. 

4. Let your fingers do the walking through the internet!  It can be intimidating to give your email address out; however, reputable sites will send you value-added information to enrich your home school.

5. Look into community service opportunities for your children.  These are invaluable lessons that help shape the character of your children.  Your church is a wonderful place to seek these out. 

6.  There are free summer camps - usually only in the morning or afternoon.  You must search these out early.  They can be very valuable experiences and deepen your child's knowledge on a certain topic.  Multiple opportunities throughout the summer can include game design, Lego camps, Microsoft coding camps, etc...

7.  Another summer activity includes community or public pools.  There are many, many neighborhood community pools in the San Antonio area or the city public pools.  Give your children the chance to exercise and have fun.

8.  Never pay a fortune for another reading list book again!  Be flexible and willing to use free book options on Kindle and Nook.  There are AMAZING options!  Some are completely free and others are $.49-$2.99.  Are there expensive books... of course! However, by being flexible - you can draft a reading list for your elementary, middle, or high school student that doesn't break the bank.

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Here are a few free websites that add value - this is by no means conclusive, but it's a start:

1. Pizza Hut Reading Program - http://www.bookitprogram.com/teachers/enrollment.asp

2. Easy-Peasy Homeschool -   http://allinonehomeschool.com/

3. Free Summer Bowling, but shoe rental extra - https://www.kidsbowlfree.com/coupon.php?token=ae23a187ccbc7da4e12c93e8300bc34dce13e583

4. Free Home School Deals are really free, but they advertise and some ask for email address to send ads, so use cautiously.  www.FreeHomeschoolDeals.com


Check these out! Let me know if you have questions/comments and fee free to add some of your favorites too!!

Blessings,
Jenny
 

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

We're Back!

The Lord laid it on my heart recently to consistently catalogue our homeschool journey and all the messy pieces that create our learning masterpiece.  The key word being consistent.  I know by faith He will guide my words and thoughts - even when there is no time for anything else - this collection will be beautiful... clearly a mess... but beautiful. 


It's been quite awhile since I added to this blog... No excuses - just primarily because the busyness of life got away from me - plus Kris and I have a new addition to the family - Our amazing little Sweet P.!  A bundle of pure joy that plays, loves, and learns with his whole heart.  

So here we go again... this is the new beginning to our journey.  Follow us as we laugh, cry, work hard, and kick back - all loving the Lord in all things each day.

Blessings,
Jenny